NOVEMBER 2010 MONTHLY HOROSCOPES
You are gaining precious perspective and evolving in your understanding of a deeply complex situation. It may feel like you have reached the end of the road, but every end is a new beginning. First, though, comes a conscious process of emptying out and letting go of all of what you know you do not need. You are being liberated from old beliefs and opinions regarding a partnership. There is a piece of information that is arising, awakening your hope in a dream. A partner may still seem to be pulling back, hesitant or unsure. But be patient with this process; let go of trying to control everything. You have more to gain and can find greater depth in your commitments by sharing and exchanging ideas and resources. Follow your deepest intuition and your most optimistic vision. If you keep your sense of perspective and are honest, imaginative, and creative, then this is a cycle that is soon to find you growing in tangible and intangible treasures, bringing an almost magical resurrection within a situation where you thought all hope was lost.
A relationship is evolving deeply. But so are you, even more than is apparent on the surface and the depths of which even you may only viscerally feel. You are also learning what a relationship, has been in aid of and what you need to feel safe through the changing tides. You more than most signs can dissolve into a union and remain committed through lifetimes. But you are learning now, how not to lose yourself, your essence and your own identity in the face of powerful others in your world. Reclaim your power; focus on feeding the sacred, devotional aspect of your relationships. Be honest with yourself about the “ideas” about relationships you’ve outgrown. You are at the start of a new cycle within your relationships. Something has been through the ring of fire but trying hold on to the past (pain or pleasure) is like trying to hold water in a fist… Immerse yourself in what you feel and know to be true, and let go of your deathly grip on something. Only ‘freedom’ will bring you the closeness and intimacy you seek. Then you can emerge on the other side, renewed and refreshed with a deeper understanding of what is real and truly of value. There is great potential opening up in your world. Reach for an enticing opportunity that seems almost too good to be true. It holds more water than you think.
As I began to write your horoscope, I thought of a dear Gemini friend who, after much soul-searching, wants to join the police force. But his biggest concern is his mother in Ireland (a Virgo), whom he knows will worry about him and would stay up all night if she knew he was out on patrol. He does not want to put her through that hell and feels that he would rather sacrifice his dreams. I suggested that he open an honest dialogue and see where it takes them. She obviously wants him to be happy, and at the very least, it would bring them closer. Look at where the analogy might apply to you and whose fears you are carrying with you, whom you don’t risk disappointing, or whose approval you seek. You are gaining deep clarity regarding your mission and ambitions, as well as the steps you will need to take to get there. It likely all seems a little too precarious, like you almost dare not make the changes being asked of you. But wouldn’t you rather live life on the edge, fulfilling your passion, serving a greater cause than dying a slow, painful death from doing something you don’t love? There is deep change flowing through your world, thrusting you into the unknown. Keep your awareness intact; don’t lose perspective on your noblest aspirations and your mission of service. And don’t look back.
It may feel like something in your heart is dying, but at the same time there is something magical birthing in your world. This indeed is the circle of life. You know that better than most and have known this truth since you were a child. It’s never easy to surrender to the unknown or to let go of something that has meant the world to you. But you are evolving to a deeper awareness of what you need from your commitments and of how you can get this. Be in no denial about your desires, how you feel, and your need for healing, even if it scares you to do so. You may fear that you will be judged for what you have to say or that it will cause more chaos. But only the truth can set you free, and you are indeed being liberated. Flow with this energy as you feed what lights a fire within you and heals you. This is a very fertile climate and if you dare to follow the truth in your heart, you can magically breathe life into something that you’ve only dared dream of. Sexually, creatively and personally you are in phase of profound resurrection. Be creative, imaginative, honest, and dare to reach for a hopeful vision.
You are at the start of a cycle which has the potential to find you growing in deep emotional as well material security, but after all you’ve been dealing with, you may be steeling yourself for more trouble. But before you start barricading yourself in, remember that this will only keep opportunity at bay. Conversations that you have this week have the potential to change the way in which you see everything and will definitely liberate you from haunting memories of the past. Listen to what someone is saying. Truth is stranger than fiction. Go past your reticence and your old opinions, resentments, beliefs and perceptions of how things used to be. Something may seem like a risky proposition, but the more something unnerves you and makes you feel like you are entering strange territory, the greater the likelihood that you are on the right track toward finding a truer sense of belonging and understanding. You can rewrite your relationship with history, and a historic relationship, while finding love and security in the present. Wherever you feel you lack, use your imagination and dare to ask for what you need. The material or emotional support that you need is available and likely to come in the form of someone who is a generously unpredictable force in your world. There is deep potential here, but it may mean that you open your doors and welcome in opportunity. Don’t be too quick too judge, and you are likely to be delightfully surprised. You’re standing on a gold mine.
You are learning the power of your thoughts and perceptions to create your reality — for better or worse. It may be scary to let go of old beliefs, and there may be a feeling that if you “surrender,” then you’re in some way admitting defeat. But in holding on too tightly to opinions, old pain or resentment, you are only preventing yourself from progress and the ability to heal a deep wound. An important conversation that you have this week can greatly change your understanding of a personal or financial relationship or situation. You may fear judgment, but avoid projecting doubt and, even if it gets a little intense, you can make a breakthrough with surprising ease. If you are honest with yourself first and in no denial of your desires and needs emotionally and materially, then it will be easier to communicate them to others. What is needed here is a deep, honest exchange, even if some truths are difficult to face. An extremely lucrative idea that you have holds more water and potential than you realize. Trust your instincts and ask for the support that you need. No matter how difficult a situation has been, reach for the most hopeful way forward. This is the power of belief. When it comes to love, speak and listen from the heart. You are being freed from your illusions so that you can discover a precious truth.
This week marks a powerful new cycle that finds you growing in emotional well-being and financial security, but part of this process also involves letting go of old values and ideas about money, sex and commitments — possessions and commitments you know you’ve outgrown. You don’t need to fear losing anyone or anything important to you. In fact, you have the power of choice here, but unless you are being absolutely honest and truthful with yourself and with others, you could miss out on seizing an exciting opportunity. Don’t fear or cling to what appears to be slipping away. Be open minded in your conversations — listen as well as speak — and you can profit from a situation much more than you fear that you can lose. You’re learning what you need from life and the changes you need to make if you want to experience more bliss and fulfillment daily at work and play. Rather than try to control everything, go with the flow; recognize your power to evolve and come back just when everyone thinks it’s all over. This is a rebirth from your core, helping you to rediscover and reclaim your true essence and potential. If you let go of your parents’ expectations for you and of you, then you are more than likely to surpass them and surprise even yourself.
You’re gaining momentum and have the power to affect important situations deeply. What you may not realize is just how much power you truly possess. You don’t need to push or force any situation or any thing. A powerful New Moon in your sign, is signalling a time of profound resurrection. Who are you? What do you want? And what does a person or certain people in your world truly mean to you? And how is this answer different today, than it was even yesterday? Be honest with yourself above all. You are so much more than you thought and you are coming to a deep understanding about yourself and what you need to feel happy. Do what you can to let go of expectations and of your own mental conditioning or darker thoughts that stand in the way of your seeing reality today. You have the power to create your Universe, and “in the end the love you take is equal to the love you make.” Be in no denial of your desires. By holding onto who you used to be, including any past pain and resentments, you are keeping yourself from evolving to the next stage of your journey and recognizing the depth of your own potential. Realize that the true gift is in forgiveness and surrender. You are soon to come to a deep realization about where you belong and where you are headed, this may potentially surprise you. But when the awareness dawns on you, reach for the most hopeful, inspiring vision in your heart, and dare to trust it.
There’s a deep fire growing within you to get things moving and get truth out. You might find yourself more impatient than ever with the pace of important partnerships and financial situations. Partners seem to be absconding, or you may wonder if anyone is even listening to your needs. But push through insecurities and have faith that you are closer to a breakthrough than you imagine. Rather than act before you have all the information, go slowly. Soon you are likely to receive important information, or an intuitive hunch might come out of nowhere. Avoid projecting doubt or mistrust, but keep awareness of your suspicions and be willing to investigate. There’s more to a situation than meets the eye, but this need not be something to fear. If you can get to the bottom of the truth, then you are likely to make a precious discovery which, although unnerving at first, can be the key to turning a difficult situation to your advantage both materially and emotionally. Whether you believe it or not, people are listening. Speak humbly but with confidence. Soon you will have all the information you need to make an informed decision. For now, trust your deepest intuition.
You are evolving in your dreams, desires and highest aspirations for yourself. A relationship, too, at this time may be in the process of a deep change. If you like what is unfolding, then there is nothing for you to worry about. Go with the flow and envision the brightest future that you can for yourself. You may fear or wonder about how you will be perceived if you were truly honest and shared your crazier ideas, but after your recent journey, you know well that the only person you need to be true to is yourself. Keep awareness of this and allow for greater freedom of expression in your relationships. This is likely to bring you closer and to deepen your intimacy within personal relationships, and it can deepen your understanding of the tangible support that is present rather than drive you apart. Be inspiring and be inspired. The Universe is presenting you with an exciting opportunity, and there are people in your world who can help you to materialize your dreams. If you can keep an open mind, then you have every reason to be optimistic. “We are never given a wish without being given the power to make it come true. You may have to work for it, however.” You’ve never shied away from work, but really, this has a life of its own. Passion can indeed give you wings.
You are making a new start professionally this week, but you may still be evaluating the direction you want to take within certain creative partnerships or a hugely important financial agreement. Rather than hold onto old ideas or power struggles, be open to fresh inspiration. You are soon to receive intriguing information that will awaken you to new possibilities and to the depths of your personal potential. It will require you to push through your boundaries, but rather than doubt yourself or be suspicious of something, follow up on an intuitive idea even if it takes you into unknown territory. This has the potential to take you new heights of success, bringing you tangible and intangible benefits. Have more faith in yourself, in what you have to offer and a hopeful vision. Your gift to the world is one that lasts beyond just this lifetime. You’re always a step ahead of the rest and, as you grow in awareness of your potential, you are evolving in your ambitions. This is not the end, nor is all hope lost. Far from it. You are on your way to a professional resurrection that can only leave others a little speechless and in awe of your brilliance. Just be humble, inspiring, and give others a chance to catch up to your brilliance. You need support, and you can have the support you need now. You’re closer to a breakthrough than you think.
You are evolving in your aspirations and ideas about wealth, power, money, love, creativity and success. But this means first letting go of control and surrendering to the powers that be. In doing that, you are sure to come to an important realization about the amount of your true power to bring change to a situation. There is an opportunity or information coming to you, possibly from a distance, that can greatly further your ambitions and open your horizons. A partner is drawing you to open your eyes to an intriguing opportunity. Stay humble but in awareness of your gifts and soul truth. If you are open and willing to step beyond your comfort zone, then this is something that can greatly widen your horizons. You are effectively being granted freedom from something that has had you on edge, taking you on a new journey toward success. Keep your highest perspective on events that are unfolding and within your conversations. There are sweeter, tangible treasures that you haven’t even discovered yet. Prepare to be pleasantly surprised.